http://www.lvrj.com/blogs/kalas/Sometimes_body_tells_us_what_heart_cant_face.html
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Question:
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Eleven months ago, I found the woman of my dreams. She is all I can imagine. She shares all my activities, like camping, hiking, skiing and more.
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She is intelligent, knows what she wants and on top of that, she is just incredibly good-looking. But this turned out to be a problem for me.
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I right away didn’t know what to do with my luck. I felt like she is more than I can handle, like she is out of my league. I’m 51, and I never had a woman like her before.
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We had a very nice time together for the first two months. Then I felt like she (started) keeping me at a distance. We did not have conversations with each other like other couples would. She kept more and more to herself. She did not share thoughts with me (except when) she was drunk. She told me a few times that she got hurt a few times in her previous relationship, and it seems that she made sure this is not going to happen again.
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This behavior and my insecurity led to severe ED problems on my behalf. She was nice about it in the beginning, but then it turned nasty a couple of times and she even called me gay.
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I tried injections, which didn’t do anything, and I tried Cialis, which pretty much was without any success, either. The family doctor I went to was not really much of a help. He more or less gave me the walkaround, gave me the Cialis and said that should do it. But I can’t with her. I’m too intimidated.
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So, in the meantime, we broke up but I have to get over this ED problem or my life becomes pretty useless.
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So I’m hoping that you could give me some advice as going to a good doctor or more likely to a counselor? I’m pretty desperate and down as of now.
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— K.L.
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Las Vegas
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